Nothing can disturb our minds more than things that are yet undone. When we don't do the things we should at the times and gets overwhelmed. Being overwhelmed usually leads to never achieved goals because we feel like we will never be able to catch up.
“Procrastination leads to more Complications.”
Referring to your actions it’s absolutely difficult to conclude if we our self are complicating our life. Here are some of the ways in which one may be needlessly complicating work & life both.
1. Looking for Escapism
The most difficult decision you will ever face is to choose between walking away and trying more. Rather than running from an unfavorable situation, keep it simple by tackling what is hard with a tough stand, a tough mind, and a tender heart. Never compromise on who you are, what you stand for. Stay true to your convictions as they precede great action.
2. Never base your decisions in half ways
We often fail to realize how important a decision is until we take a wrong ones. Still need not to try to control things as it’s the worst thing you can do during complicated time. Accept that you can’t control everything that goes on outside, however you can always control what’s within yourself.
3. You overpromise and under deliver
Being overpromising & unable to fulfill them leads to disappointment. Always be under promising & deliver more to gain admiration. It helps to keep on holding longer than needed. Letting go the fear of failure is never easy. Always remember that it is far greater power than holding on.
4. You compare yourself with others.
We all do it, often it is comparing your messy reality with someone else's consciously presented image. Focus on self-improvement without involving anyone else because we lose focus this way which allows us to concentrate on what we want to achieve. Allow everything else to fall away.
5. You wait for perfect.
Perfectionism stalls progress and paralyzes the efforts. Maintain high standards while living in an imperfect world. Always react positively, as a negative outlook holds us captive and colors everything we say and do.
6. No one owes you anything
A sense of entitlement never bring anything good into the world. Remembering what you owe to the people around you is good. Complications beckon at each turn. As a good leader, model the restraint. Stay true to yourself, your values, and your principles. You can never go wrong with this kind of simplicity.
Asking for your Attention…
Never Worry too much it’s one of the most common yet destructive habit as it complicates your life. It won't stop the bad stuff from happening, but will definitely keep you away from enjoying the good. No need to seek validation. Others’ approval is a dangerous drug--gratifying at first but not worth the long-term damage.